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Perceptions

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"IS YOUR PERCEPTION IS ACTUALLY YOURS?" It looks cool to say that we are the owner of our own mindset and our mindset is independent but to what extent its authenticity exist? Are we really independent in thoughts? Are we having a mindset of our own?. Let's talk about this! Its a business term "Supply and demand" but believe me it's accurately applicable to our mindsets and perceptions. Most of our perceptions are supplied and used by authorities. Like Hate "it's our demand" hate is easy to sell. All you need is a single controversial speech of any Religious scholar against each other's sects, A political leader and party to start a massacre between the people of the same nation for their own goods. Its simple supply and demand theory, what you demand is supplied by someone in the way the supplier wanted. The influence of media is another aspect of that supply and demand. Your perceptions are directly influenced by the society you are livin

How to avoid Ignorance?

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                                      This blog is basically for the introverts and for those who think that they are facing ignorance in any gathering. I have seen many people thinking that they are less important to others and they are being ignored in any discussion this kinda situation is  very  common for many of you guys. Let me help you to avoid the ignorance you are facing. I am mentioning some points which are going to help you somehow. HOW TO AVOID IGNORANCE? Participation In Conversations:  The important part of any gathering is that they chat a lot and you are facing ignorance because you are failing to give your input in those chats so start participating in conversations. Make Others Talk About What You Want:  let's say that in your gathering people talk about such things in which you are not interested and is resulting in your silence. So,  Don't worry you just have to work on your speaking guts to start a new topic in which you are interested and make others inv

How to Prepare for University Entry Test?

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I am a university guy and I myself faced many problems in the preparation for University entry tests. I cleared 3 aptitude test (FAST, COMSATS, NED ) out of 4  without joining any coaching for its preparation. So, I think you guys are facing the same situation that I have overlooked. This blog is basically for those who are working really hard for aptitude tests.

Being Sad Is Not Bad

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I believe that being sad is not bad at all because happiness is explained with respect to sadness and vise versa. When you are not sad then you are HAPPY and when you are not happy you are SAD, there is no middling or a mixture of happiness and sadness at the same time. Either you are sad or you are happy. It is basically a flip-over of both feelings. Try to understand it with an example, consider from 24 hours interval starting 12 hours are bestowed for being sad and the other half for happiness and days are going on. It means when you are spending your sad time it is obvious that a happy time is about to come in your life and vise versa. Retaining the same state is not in the nature of men. So whenever you are sad never lose your hope because it's temporary and whenever you are happy do not get overconfident because it is also temporary. But yes it is in your own hands to bestowed the intervals of being sad and happy accordingly with your efforts. Au Revoir!

Religion is the Hope

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When everything is hitting you real hard , Your hopes are down and dusted ,  Your sheer will remains no more. You a helpless creature fed up from temporary happiness and permanent sorrows . lying and dying on  any unknown side street hopeless. At this moment when you are realizing that everything is about to end in your life , your will to exist then Your Religion holds your hand. It helps someone by prostrating (sajda) towards the kabba and someone by praying in front of the idols , someone by worshiping the fire and someone by worshiping the cattle. It provide us a frame of rules. A frame that fix the soul. It guides you the way of life and built your personality to bear the fire. It gives you emotions which turns into nation's motivations. It gives you the law to counter your flaw. Au Revoir!

I'm Always Right

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I was walking on a road side, saw a signboard , directing me to walk on the left side. But I chose the right one because " I'm always Right " and had an accident with a car. "I' 'm sorry',The driver apologized. But his Nasir khan Jan kinda looks made me  angry. I was carrying a hockey stick, in response I just broke both hands and the nose of that blind Faggot to assure my superiority and obviously it wasn't my mistake because " I am always Right ". I went to the hospital not because of him but because I was hurt a little. The nurse at the hospital held my hand and told me that its just a cut there is nothing to worry about. " Darling! The cut ain't need no bandages your hand is enough ", I said. I  was observing her , thought she must be smiling inside by my flirt. She, in a gentle way picked the scissors and made another cut on my hand. She called the Guards then " ME AND THE GIANT GUARDS" had a small

We: The Second Rapist

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Yes!  she is been raped. it wasn't her will but of a beast. So, why she is paying? why her future is at stake? why she is mourning for what happened? why should she fear from people's gossips?. It was neither her happiness nor her will. Two kinda people are partially involved to spoil her life, her future. One, The rapist who raped her brutally and without any doubt he deserve our curses. Second,  We ( The second rapist ). what are we as a society ? Are we providing a respectful atmosphere to that girl? Obviously not. The problem is we are not developing a comfortable environment for her. Even to file a simple FIR against the rapist. Why we as a father and a brother can't provide a comfort zone to fight for her justice. If you are a girl then ask your brother and if you are a boy then ask yourself. (. Would you marry a raped girl? .) . If Yes then its fine there is no debate left. But if your answer is No then why this psychological misconception is building in